Busting Excuses

Why You Deserve a Boudoir Experience

Busting Excuses

When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses to take ourselves out of the equation. Sometimes it’s just fear, we try to find reasons to make us feel better about the reasons we choose SOMETHING. Sometimes it’s hard to prioritize self-care. We get it. We want to take the time to let you know the best tips for it (and there is never a ‘perfect’ time). We want to help you no matter the season of life you are in. You CAN do this! Let us show you how to make this your season. You are worthy of self-love, right now, just the way you are.

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“I don’t have enough time for myself”

It’s easier to make excuses than it is to work on your mental health, isn’t it? You’re not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else, which means you need to make sure you’re back and check those boundaries in line. Make it a priority, and take at least a moment to unwind. I work full-time. I think it is essential to make time for myself. I have to make sure that I’m able to do that for my own self-care, because if I do not do it for myself, then who is? You have to prioritize yourself, and we spend it looking at a screen; you can enjoy getting pampered for your session!

A boudoir shoot is a day to focus on YOU. Just you. You owe it to yourself to have time. Think of it as a very special spa day, or a date just for you enjoying yourself. This experience is truly empowering, and we want to give you that time for your self-care. If you want to prioritize yourself, you must make room for that time in your life.

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“I’m not where I want to be weight wise” or “I don’t fit the media’s idea of a good enough size”

Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT. Your body is worthy of being in portraits, and every size is beautiful. Why should you wait to book a session until you fit a certain size? Why should you feel you can’t be beautiful now?

How many times have you put yourself on the back burner to fit the “right time”? Have you heard those stories? I think you have. The “right time” is now. Even if you feel like you have not reached a milestone, it will all come together. Boudoir is about celebrating your beautiful self, at this moment.

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“I’m never feel sexy or sensual anymore so a boudoir shoot must not be for me.”

WRONG.

This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot.

Often times we feel stuck in our femininity or sexuality and lose grip because of motherhood/work/life! It happens a lot and it absolutely does not make you any less of a woman. We need to remember we are in this together and that we are all amazing. We just need to own it! How often have you heard about a sexy reawakening, and what if a simple boudoir shoot is what you need right now in your life?

Another tip to remember is that you don’t have to “feel sexy” to rock a boudoir shoot. We all have days when we feel less than 100% about our personality, but there are so many other sides of you. If you need ideas, I will gladly help you brainstorm. As you can shoot and enjoy a feeling confident and amazing.

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18-600 by Studio Kate Portrait Design - Noblesville Boudoir Photographer

“A boudoir shoot is an investment and I don’t have all the money right now.”

You would be amazed at the options available to book a session. Most of the time we have payments available that make it easier to book and shoot. There is a booking retainer, and after that, we can set up your personal plan to make sure it’s booked in time! If you have any worries about our payment plans, check out our website today or give us a quick call.

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